
den wellness
_______ doesn’t have to feel hard.
Happy…
Healing…
Growth…
Change…
Authenticity…
Love…
Family…
LIFE…
None of it has to feel hard.
Less talk, more transformation
Talk therapy didn’t work.
Self-help books didn’t work.
Podcasts and YouTube videos didn’t work.
Journaling didn’t work.
You feel like something is missing.
You’re still stuck…
stressed…
burnt out…
anxious…
lonely…
stuck in old patterns…
dissatisfied with your life.
You know what doesn’t work — are you ready to try what does ?
If talking worked, you’d already feel free.
What makes Den different?
What ‘They’ Do:
They practice traditional therapy with confines and restrictions
They use tedious intake paperwork to begin to get to know who you are and what you need
They may be ‘trauma informed’ but lack proper training, understanding and expertise
They let you talk while they nod and say “uh-huh”, “mmhmm” and passively listen
They teach you brain based coping strategies that require you to be calm / ‘not triggered’ to use
They focus on the conscious mind / surface level
They use outdated approaches that are ineffective and inefficient
They hold space from the sidelines
They limit contact to scheduled sessions
They don’t share who they are
They don’t understand the value & importance of developing relationships with their clients
They don’t have a set structure to the healing journey
They cap sessions at 50mins which can mean stopping just when things start getting real.
They benefit when you don’t heal — you could be seeing the same therapist for YEARS. They profit and you stay stuck.
What Den Does:
We use a unique, highly relational coach approach that delivers results
We use our in-depth First Four intake process that helps you get to know yourself better while we get to know you
We are trauma experts with over 17 years of intensive trauma experience and training
We engage in dialogue and dive beneath the surface to understand what you are really sharing
We help you connect with your body and understand your nervous system so triggers don’t have power
We focus on the subconscious — which is where all thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors originate
We are ‘in it’ with you — no sidelining here! We actively engage in every step of the journey
We are accessible outside of sessions, supporting you when you need it most!
We are real people who understand the importance of connection and vulnerability when working with clients — we aren't afraid to share what we deal with too!
We offer a variety of session lengths so you always get what you need
We create a well-defined roadmap to get you from where you are now to where you want to be so you don’t need us!
We don’t know everything but…
We know what’s it like to have a life that feels rich in many ways and yet, hollow, small, empty or lacking in others.
We know what it feels like to sense that something is ‘missing’ even when things are ‘good’.
We know that just because you ‘should’ be happy, doesn’t mean you are.
We know how to help you create a life that is more joyful, more rewarding and more meaningful than you ever thought possible!
(and we know talking won’t get you ‘there'!)
We are not a cookie-cutter program based approach to healing so we don’t know what ‘there’ means for you but what we do know is that ‘there’ isn’t ‘here’.
Here is where you are now — stuck, unfulfilled, unhappy, overwhelmed, disconnected, inauthentic, people-pleasing, lacking direction, purpose and meaning — and you are so ready to change your life.
We dive into where you are now (the ‘here’) and work together to define where you want to go (the ‘there’), then we map out your individualized journey to get from ‘here’ to ‘there’ using our unique hybrid, holistic approach.
Ready to change your life? We can’t wait to meet you!
The “work” that actually works.
How we get results…
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Big T, Little T and everything in between, trauma is our passion. Weird? We don’t think so! We know what trauma is (and isn’t) and we know what it does. Too much, too fast, too soon, trauma isn’t necessarily what happens to us but is actually what happens inside of us as a result of what happens to us. Trauma leaves a mark and has a lasting impact that continues to show up in the present until we heal. We understand trauma on a deep level and know how to best support you to move through it, feel what needs to be felt and heal from it all so you can live your best life!
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Think of your nervous system like a detective working to keep you safe. It operates below the 'thinking brain' and drives all of your behaviors, thoughts and actions. Understanding what triggers it, how it works to protect you and what tools you can use to calm it are key. If you can learn to master your nervous system you will absolutely change your life!
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Soma = body. Evvverything is processed and stored in the body. In order for anything in your life to shift – habits, beliefs, emotions, relationships, career, finances – we have to start with the body! Releasing, integrating, creating space… Somatic work allows us to start shifting things in deep ways. We get you out of your brain and into your body so that life can look (and feel) different!
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One of the ‘buzziest’ therapeutic approaches these days (for good reason!), IFS is truly life changing. You may have heard of ‘parts work’ or have used the phrase ‘a part of me thinks that…” IFS allows us to create separation from your ‘parts’ so that we can get curious, dive deep and create change so that you are in the driver’s seat of your life. Aren’t familiar with the concept? No worries! It’s easiest to wrap your head around when you see it in action… in the meantime, here are some common parts that most of us are familiar with: inner critic, perfectionist, and people pleaser.
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Another buzzy concept, the inner child plays a critical role in where you are and where you’re headed. Inner child work is a powerful psychological tool for healing the subconscious and shifting patterns, beliefs and behaviors. The inner child is the part of your psyche that carries both wounding and wonder, unmet needs and innocence, protective patterns and play. Connecting with your inner child allows you to access new information about unhealed wounds and needs that may be impacting you now. With that awareness, we work on reparenting ‘little you’ so they aren’t running the show and keeping you stuck.
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Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized, Secure… we all have an attachment style that is formed very early on and plays a BIG role in our life. As human beings, we are wired for connection and our earliest relationship with our primary caregiver will dictate our: emotional development, ability to form healthy connections, overall self-esteem, stress management and social interactions. Identifying your attachment style helps you understand why you do what you do / feel what you feel as an adult and how those behaviors and feelings impact your relationship with self and others.
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We’re going DEEP. No surface level here! ;) Approaching things with a psychodynamic lens means we go beyond your conscious awareness to dive into the subconscious and explore what’s really going on – repressed memories, unspoken desires, hidden traumas – we excavate it all. The subconscious is what drives all of our responses, behaviors, thoughts and feelings and by bringing it into conscious awareness we can feel and heal to create lasting change.
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Research shows that spiritually has a huge impact on mental wellbeing (and no, we are not talking about religion!). We’re talking about meaning, purpose, awareness, aliveness and deep connection to the world around us… a sense of hope, trust, wonder, and awe. Some may call it ‘woo woo’, we know better ;)
We Believe…
1. Happy doesn't have to be hard.
We believe that changing your life doesn’t have to feel like work. It can be easy, joyful, relaxed – and dare we say, fun. Our goal is to help you believe that too! Do less, live more, feel more, have more, be more… even more.
2. Change happens beneath the surface.
We believe the body and the subconscious mind hold the key to healing. Everything you want is available to you when you create safety in your body, learn to master your nervous system and shift your subconscious patterns.
3. Connection is non-negotiable.
We believe that safe, secure, connected relationships are a foundational piece to changing your life and we are honored to play a role in that. You are not just a person we see once a week. You matter more to us!
Body, mind, spirit… all of you is welcome here.
Less ‘work’, more life
When you get intentional about healing, every aspect of your life gets better. Health, well-being, relationships, career, finances, spirituality, recreation, community…
At Den we are experts on helping you heal and make lasting change so that you feel more fulfilled, connected to others, a part of the world around you, at home in your body, at peace with yourself, and fascinated and open to the journey that is your life.
Are you ready to start living your deep, abundant, fulfilling life?
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
— Carl Jung
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