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Happy

doesn’t

have to

feel hard.

Trauma healing for real life.

We know what’s it’s like to experience trauma and how it can impact every area of your life.

We know what’s it like to have a life that feels rich in many ways and yet, hollow, small, empty or lacking in others.

We know what it feels like to sense that something is ‘missing’ even when things are ‘good’.

We know that just because you ‘should’ be happy, doesn’t mean you are.

We know how to help you create a life that is more joyful, more rewarding and more meaningful than you ever thought possible!

(and we know just talking won’t get you from ‘here’ to ‘there'!)

We don’t know everything but…

Your life is now.

Here.

Today.

Unfolding, always.

And maybe your ‘here’ means feeling stuck, unfulfilled, unhappy, overwhelmed, disconnected, lost, confused, inauthentic, people-pleasing, exhausted, lonely, discontent, uncertain about your future… trust us, we get it! We’ve been there, done that and bought the t-shirt 😉.

Lucky for you, we know how to get you from ‘here’ to ‘there’ because we know you are so ready to transform your life in all the BEST ways… to have an abundant, EVEN MORE kind of life.

You’re in the right place. ✨

“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”

— Carl Jung

Less talk, more transformation

Talk therapy didn’t work.

Self-help books didn’t work.

Podcasts and YouTube videos didn’t work.

Journaling didn’t work.

You feel like something is missing.

You’re still stuck…

stressed…

burnt out…

anxious…

lonely…

stuck in old patterns…

dissatisfied with your life.

You know what doesn’t work — are you ready to try what does ?

If talking worked, you’d already feel free.

What makes Den different?

What ‘they’ do:

  • They practice traditional therapy with confines and restrictions

  • They use tedious intake paperwork to begin to get to know who you are and what you need

  • They may be ‘trauma informed’ but lack proper training, understanding and expertise

  • They let you talk while they nod and say “uh-huh”, “mmhmm” and passively listen

  • They teach you brain based coping strategies that require you to be calm / ‘not triggered’ to use

  • They focus on the conscious mind / surface level

  • They use outdated approaches that are ineffective and inefficient

  • They hold space from the sidelines

  • They limit contact to scheduled sessions

  • They don’t share who they are

  • They don’t understand the value of developing real relationships with their clients

  • They cap sessions at 50mins which can mean stopping just when things start getting real.

  • They benefit when you don’t heal — you could be seeing the same therapist for YEARS. They profit and you stay stuck.

What Den does:

  • We use a unique, highly relational coach approach that delivers results

  • We use our in-depth First Four intake process that helps you get to know yourself better while we get to know you

  • We are trauma experts with over 17 years of intensive trauma experience and training

  • We engage in dialogue and dive beneath the surface to understand what you are really sharing

  • We help you connect with your body and understand your nervous system so triggers don’t have power

  • We focus on the subconscious — which is where all thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors originate

  • We are ‘in it’ with you — no sidelining here! We actively engage in every step of the journey

  • We are accessible outside of sessions, supporting you when you need it most!

  • We are real people who understand the importance of connection and vulnerability when working with clients — we aren't afraid to share what we deal with too!

  • We offer a variety of session lengths so you always get what you need

  • We get you from where you are now to where you want to be so you don’t need us!

How we get results…

The “work” that actually works.

We Believe…

1. Happy doesn't have to be hard.

We believe that changing your life doesn’t have to feel like work. It can be easy, joyful, relaxed – and dare we say, fun. Our goal is to help you believe that too! Do less, live more, feel more, have more, be more… even more.

2. Change happens beneath the surface.

We believe the body and the subconscious mind hold the key to healing. Everything you want is available to you when you create safety in your body, learn to master your nervous system and shift your subconscious patterns.

3. Connection is non-negotiable.

We believe that safe, secure, connected relationships are a foundational piece to changing your life and we are honored to play a role in that. You are not just a person we see once a week. You matter more to us!

  • "I am really grateful that I found you and could start working with you. I truly feel like the very few sessions we’ve had so far have done more for me and helped me more than every other therapist I have seen over the years put together! Thank you!"

  • "I don't know how you do what you do or where you got your skill set but no one has ever been able to shift things like this for me."

  • "This heaviness I have been feeling, this guilt and the emotions I’ve been carrying have left me. I have joy and light back in my soul after our session today. Thank you!!"

  • “I realize now I have always had the power to change my life, but without you, I never would have learned how. Thank you doesn't seem sufficient enough.

  • "Over the last year, you have helped me grow exponentially, tackle self-doubt & suppressed emotional trauma, and change the framing of the world around me. I am forever grateful."

  • "Thank you again for all of the help and support you've given me! My house, probably as a representation of my life, is finally starting to feel like a home."

  • "Old habits are on their way out and new beginnings are happening. I am so much happier. My husband is thrilled! LOL."

  • "We really appreciate you! Today’s session was so emotional and deep so thank you so much, truly, for being with us through it all. We couldn’t do it without you."

  • "Thank you for everything you do. I am glad I hung in there with you and this process. You are really good at this! Thank you for sharing your gift."

  • "The me from 5 years ago would be so inspired by who I am today. Thank you for showing me the path."

  • "Thanks for being such a wonderful, caring support ❤️. You are seriously the best!"

  • "Today was another great appointment! Your advice and insight are invaluable. I feel so much lighter already. Thank you for all you do."

  • "THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! You are truly a gift to this family and especially my girls."

  • "I’m extremely grateful to have met you. You’ve been so amazing at helping me get to know myself better and helping me connect deeper with my kids. Thank you!"

  • "You’re amazing at this work and I am so grateful for you. Healing is a beautiful thing."

  • "Thank you for helping me to grow in ways I didn’t think I could. I am so grateful I found you at this point in my life."

  • "When I look back over the last year, I have made tremendous progress on understanding myself and living a much happier and more fulfilling life. I can't thank you enough for being exactly who I needed to walk me through all of that."

  • "I am looking forward to continuing the work to understand my parts and make changes in my life. You have set a high bar and I’m excited to see where this leads!"

  • "I am so grateful for you! Our conversation today really helped me see the part that is holding me back and I’m so excited to learn what they have to teach me."

  • "Today’s session was so amazing. I feel like I can finally relax and just ‘be’."

  • "Parts work has been so eye opening and is definitely helping me get on the right track. I feel like I am coming out of survival mode. "

  • "I am so grateful for our work this past year. The difference between this year and last is night and day. Thank you so much!"

  • "I wanted to thank you again for your help today. It was so helpful, very eye opening and I already feel changes happening. I’m excited for our next session!"

  • “Thank you for walking this journey with me and pouring your heart and soul into me. I am so grateful for you and the work you do. This last year has been life changing and I could not have done this without you. Truly, from the bottom of my heart, thank you. “

  • “Thank you so much for today!  I'm going to be processing this session for a while. It was probably our best (which is saying a lot!!)”

  • “I wanted to take the time to thank you for all your time that you have spent helping me on this journey of growth and discovery. It is not an easy road but you have helped me be more in tune with what I am feeling and to ‘lean in’. I appreciate you so much and am so grateful for all the tools you have given me.”

  • “Thank you again for being amazing! This work has been so life changing for me.💜✨”

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